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Dad Tired

Why Men Feel Spiritually Stuck (and How To Break Free) | Kyle Idleman 468

Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopes

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

5 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Why do so many men feel stuck—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—even while doing all the “right” things? 
In this vulnerable conversation, Kyle Idleman talks about the inner battles men face in silence. He explains why many men hide behind performance and productivity, how healing begins with connection (not accomplishment), and what it really looks like to take every thought captive.

Kyle and Jerrad dig into thought patterns that keep men stuck, the mental load of leadership, and why confessing weakness isn’t whining—it’s spiritual obedience. If you’ve ever felt alone, overburdened, or ashamed of not “being further along,” this conversation will help you breathe again.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why men around age 40 often face unexpected internal crisis
  • How emotional connection—not productivity—defines your health
  • What it looks like to take every thought captive in practical terms
  • The healing power of confession and friendship
  • How to recognize and break negative thought patterns
  • Morning routines, prayer habits, and spoken truth as tools for renewal


Mentioned in the Episode:

  1. Every Thought Captive (Kyle Idleman’s new book)
  2. Galatians 6: “Bear one another’s burdens”
  3. The power of saying Scripture aloud to renew your mind
  4. Healthy male friendships and confession as healing rhythms
  5. The “+/- 3 of 40” principle: why men change between 37–43
  6. Tools like ClearSpace, prayer closets, and daily scripture meditation

Transcript

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0:00.0

If my wife isn't feeling connected with me, I would say as a younger husband, I would have been a little dismissive of that.

0:06.2

Now, I trust her perception of connection more than my own.

0:11.1

Like, I might think we're really connected and doing well.

0:13.8

But if she doesn't think that, then she's right.

0:16.1

Three, two, one, Hey, Hey, you're

0:32.1

pumped that you're here

0:34.9

with us today

0:35.5

if you're brand new.

0:36.2

Welcome.

0:36.8

We're just a bunch of dudes who are

0:37.9

trying to figure out what it looks like for us to find healing in our own life so that we can be the

0:41.8

husband's fathers and men that god has called us to be two ways that you can get involved first off

0:47.1

we have a dad tired retreat and in september and i would love for you to be there um we are filling up

0:52.9

on spots for that make sure that you grab your spot by going to dadtire.com

0:56.9

and then click the retreat tab.

0:59.1

It's an annual retreat.

1:00.0

We do once a year.

1:00.7

By far, the most powerful thing that we do, a bunch of like-minded guys.

1:05.2

You can come alone.

1:06.3

You can come with a group of guys, friends, church group.

1:08.3

It does matter.

1:09.4

I promise you you will enjoy it. It will be

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