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🗓️ 11 August 2025
⏱️ 99 minutes
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This one may ruffle some (male) feathers, but that’s par for the course with Professor Chesko – award-winning communications professor, podcaster, husband, father, and feminist. We talk with him about the manosphere and why men taking advice from other men is such a problem. We’re chatting about why (some) men have it all wrong when it comes to women and money, men pursuing women when they don’t actually understand or respect women, and men who only date super young women and why. Chesko tells us about his haters and why they call him a “pick me,” but also how he’s been able to have productive conversations with some of them in the DMs. We are also going off about all the ridiculous stuff that’s considered “gay” in those toxic corners of the Internet, and then we break down some bad behaviors like ghosting, breadcrumbing, and other red flags. Before our guest joins us, Rayna shares two crazy things that happened to her before and on a flight, and Ashley’s bachelorettes are beginning. Enjoy!
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| 0:00.0 | It's getting to the point. |
| 0:01.2 | I think social media is amplifying it so much where the things that are not manly are absurd. |
| 0:24.9 | This podcast is a Dear Media production. |
| 0:26.1 | Hi guys. |
| 0:26.7 | Hi guys. |
| 0:28.7 | Welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta eat. |
| 0:29.7 | Welcome back. |
| 0:30.1 | Rainie, you've been living in your denim cul-od. |
| 0:34.0 | Every damn day. |
| 0:35.5 | Okay, you see them twice this week, but tell me the last time you saw them before this. The week before that, twice. You just can't stop, won't stop. I love it. I love them. And a flip-flop, you did not use to show your toes. I mean, you're a new woman. She's a different girl these days. Like a year ago even, if you would have been like Ray to Greenbergberg, the next year this time. Thighs in, toes out. You're going to be in a knee length, denim short, and a flip flop? You would have been like, bitch, please. It's the summer of free the toe. Okay, toes are having a real summer. Well, I didn't ask you, you had a Band-Aid on your toe yesterday. I, girl. We didn't address it. I cut my toe. I don't know how in Denver. |
| 1:11.1 | Like we were... Well, I didn't ask you, you had a band-aid on your toe yesterday. I, girl. We didn't address it. |
| 1:11.5 | Why was there? |
| 1:12.6 | I cut my toe. |
| 1:14.0 | I don't know how in Denver. |
| 1:09.7 | Like, we were going to brunch. We had taken scooters there. I was wearing a sock and a sneaker. And I get, we went to softa. And my sock, like, came off in my shoe. like, you know, like slides down the worst feeling in the world. |
| 1:46.4 | So I sat down and I went to like take my shoe off and put my sock back on, slide it up over my heel. And I was like bleeding out in my, my sock. I'm like exaggerating, but like the toe of the sock was like soaked in blood. Which toe is it? This toe. The big toe, is it possible that your little toe cut, your toe next to it, cut it? |
| 1:43.0 | Your toenails aren't that long. You need a pedic. No. No. Brandon, it's so bad. Stop. We've been through this. It's not even a funny bit anymore. Don't. They grow at different rates. Like one of them looks like a French manicure. You think these are all that haven't been snipped? |
| 1:45.8 | I got to be cutting them because they would give me, |
| 2:01.2 | I wouldn't be able to fit my shoes. I have to cut my toenails so often. Like I don't know what it is. Nothing on my body grows faster than my toenails. I just, a gel pedicure. I mean, the polish lasts for three years. So it's like, I'm like, but I somehow, so somehow sliced my toe, didn't recognize it. Put on shoe, sock, took a scooter, went to brunch, bleeding out the whole time. You rolled in here with the brightest band-aid I've ever seen yesterday. So anyway, guys, send me thoughts and prayers. Send me healing thoughts and prayers. Yeah, but it's summer free the toes. Flip-flops really had a. I'm really proud of you. Thank you. I mean, I have ugly feet and it is my worst quality. Like my worst physical quality. Name a worst physical quality on me. You can't. I think everything is beautiful on you. But if I had to pick a thing, it is them. I've always said if a man can love my feet, that's how I know he loves me. |
| 2:52.9 | If he's like, they're so cute, that's how I know he loves me. |
| 2:55.2 | Well, I've said this before, but you had an ex and he wanted to know what he should do for |
| 3:00.2 | your birthday. |
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