Why Men Date Younger And The Only First Date Advice You’ll Ever Need
We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
4.2 • 2.4K Ratings
🗓️ 13 December 2020
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
In this full solo episode, I discuss loving your partner more than yourself, older men dating younger women, first date advice, STI’s, how alcohol has ruined my relationships, living with your partner’s family during quarantine, self-sabotage in relationships, dating during a pandemic, my career, if you can date someone with the opposite work ethic, “intuitive eating,” bringing past trauma into a new relationship, when to discuss marriage if you live together, my weed addiction, how I was at 23 vs today, tips for following your passion, and more!
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a deer media production. |
| 0:06.4 | Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I'm so excited for this episode because it's actually |
| 0:12.6 | a full solo episode, which I feel like we haven't done in a really long time. But here we are. |
| 0:20.5 | And hopefully you don't get sick of my voice. And hopefully I get to a lot of questions that you |
| 0:27.4 | had asked. So let's just get started then. The first question that was written in was, |
| 0:38.6 | are you ever supposed to love your significant other more than yourself? Absolutely not. |
| 0:45.7 | This is the worst thing that you can do in a relationship. And it's a really easy way to |
| 0:51.4 | completely lose your sense of self. You have to know that you come first. It's when you're on an |
| 0:58.2 | airplane, they say to put on your life vest before you put on the other persons. And that is so |
| 1:06.0 | important because it's really about making sure that you're in a good state of mind. Otherwise, |
| 1:14.1 | you're not going to be able to be there for someone else. So I know that when you love someone so |
| 1:18.5 | much, like you can get lost in the sauce that is the love. And you can really want to put them |
| 1:24.6 | in front of you. But you really have to put yourself first. And then and also think about it. |
| 1:31.4 | Like you're doing that so that you can be there for your partner. You're not just doing it to be |
| 1:36.8 | selfish. Like you're truly doing it because you want to show up for them. So it's not really that |
| 1:43.7 | selfish at all. It's actually selfless if you think about it like that. So I would highly recommend |
| 1:50.9 | taking care of yourself, whether that means going to therapy or just doing things that make you |
| 1:58.0 | feel more like yourself. I think the only exception would be if your partner were really sick. And |
| 2:07.0 | you know, God forbid and you had to go spend all your time with them. Like that's of course you're |
| 2:13.9 | going to put them before yourself in that situation. But other than that, like you really got to |
| 2:18.9 | put yourself first first dates. I always get questions about first dates like how to prepare, |
| 2:25.6 | how to not be nervous. And we actually have a great IGTV on this from my talk with Serena |
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