My Secret To Always Having A Boyfriend ft. Erica and Molly from Shooter’s Gotta Shoot

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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.2 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 December 2020

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Erica and Molly from Shooter’s Gotta Shoot podcast. We discuss the “making sure you got home safe text,” living with a friend, no reach no second date, why you need to bring cash on a date, if is it a sign they aren't into you if they let you split the bill, how to bring up paying equally in a relationship, men being more insecure about saying how much they make, why my BF and I split rent, me being a serial monogamist, my secrets to get guys, why exclusivity is trash, using read receipts to your ad- vantage, and more. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to ask the person you’re dating about their past relationships, sleeping in separate beds, being honest in therapy, dating in winter quarantine, and my astrology reading.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.4	Hey guys, welcome back to We Minute Acme. I can't believe it's already December 20th, like where
0:12.3	has the month gone? And also it's so weird that winter doesn't actually start until tomorrow, like
0:20.4	who knew? So this podcast today is one of my favorites that we've done in a while. It's with
0:26.7	Erica and Molly from Shooters got a shoot podcast and they are just hysterical. Like I loved
0:33.8	recording with them on their podcast, which you should absolutely check out. And I was so happy
0:39.3	to have them on We Minute Acme. I like could not stop talking to them. And I definitely think that
0:44.8	we should have them back because they're really great. And I think you're going to enjoy the episode
0:50.3	a lot. But before we get into it, we're going to do a little solo where I answer some of your
0:54.8	questions and then just get right to it. So somebody asked, if we have a podcast where we discuss
1:02.0	how to ask the person that you're dating about their past relationships and do's and don'ts of
1:07.6	that conversation or just to even start this conversation and how to ensure that it's constructive.
1:14.7	So for me, I have always thought that it's really important to get this over with in the
1:20.5	beginning of dating, meaning like between dates one and three. And it's not always that seamless.
1:28.0	Like I've dated people who are more reserved when it comes to talking about X's. But to approach
1:33.9	the conversation, I think it's okay to say something like when was your last relationship.
1:38.9	And the reason is because that's a pretty standard conversation in dates like one to three.
1:45.1	I think that you want to know if someone is recently out of a relationship. You want to know if
1:51.2	someone hasn't had a relationship in a while. Not because you're judging them, but because it
1:56.4	puts things into perspective. Like if you don't ask that question early on, what if they
2:00.8	were engaged and broke it off and you'd know what if they're divorced, they're really important
2:06.4	things that come up around the conversation. So I would say do's like do be open-minded.
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