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Why it's vital to process your birth - whatever your experience with Illiyin Morrison

Motherkind

Zoe Blaskey

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8864 Ratings

🗓️ 16 March 2023

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Trigger warning This episode comes with a warning about birth trauma and recovery. Please give it a miss if you think it might be hard to listen to. I speak with the incredible Illiyin Morrison. Illy is an author and mother of two. She is also a midwife, specialising in postpartum recovery and care, facilitating birth debriefs. Illy supports couples and birthing parents as well as non-birthing parents with an awareness that perinatal trauma affects all parties.  This episode is about the importance of being able to process our early motherhood and birth experiences. This period can be our most traumatic and transformational, and it is so important to feel listened to, validated and understood. There is so much gold in this episode and one you will want to share. @zoeblaskey - come engage with Zoe and our community over on Instagram for inspiration, tips, and sometimes a bit of humour to get us through our day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, welcome to this week's episode of the Motherkind podcast, the show that's

0:09.2

going to help you navigate the massive challenges of life as a modern mother with more community,

0:14.3

confidence, clarity and self-awareness. I believe the most important and inspiring thing we can do for our children is to become the

0:23.1

most empowered, resilient, authentic versions of ourselves. And this podcast exists to help you do

0:30.0

just that. This week's episode is about the importance of being able to process our experiences.

0:38.2

From the moment we're born and throughout our lives,

0:40.9

one of our biggest wishes is to be heard.

0:44.6

In fact, as humans, one of our core needs is to be listened to,

0:49.6

to be validated and to be understood.

0:52.3

And this episode is about how to process your birth and early motherhood experience so that

0:59.5

you feel listened to, validated and understood.

1:03.7

It is really important.

1:06.3

Whatever happened at your birth, childbirth and early parenthood are some of the most

1:16.3

transformational experiences as we talk about week in, week out on the podcast you can ever go to. But so often we're not given that space, time or the tools to process and

1:24.1

reflect and reframe those experiences. The pressure to bounce back, to adjust,

1:31.0

to just push down any difficult motions and carry on is immense. And sometimes we just have

1:36.2

to do that, don't we, just to keep going. Well, in this episode, the incredible Ili Morrison is

1:42.3

here to help. So Ili is a midwife specialising in postpartum recovery and care.

1:47.5

And Ili facilitate birth debriefs, where women get to be validated, understood and listened to,

1:56.5

to take control of their experiences, to feel seen and centred in their pregnancies and births.

2:03.5

This episode does come with a trigger warning. We speak about birth. We speak about birth trauma

2:09.3

and birth recovery. And if you think that might be hard for you to listen to, just give this

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