So we are on part two of this episode, this message of talking about why husbands should,

sorry, let me rephrase this, it is right and good for husbands to be the primary initiators of sex in marriage.

So if you haven't listened to the first episode, we'd invite you to go back, listen to that,

because I'm sure your feathers are already ruffled, and we can kind of smooth some of those out for you as well as present the

truth of the situation and we acknowledge some of the elephants the room but today

once we get to the other side we are going to be talking about why men are built to be the leaders in the home and why this should also include the area of intimacy.

Okay, because you're going to want to go check out last week's we talked about

pitfalls to avoid the reality about sex and what it actually is and why

husbands don't feel like they can initiate okay and how women and wives can be partly to blame for that possibly.

So go back and check out that other episode and once you've done that, join us for this episode on the other side.

This is one of those episodes where I just hope people can hear our hearts and hear the truth and not get hung up on

This maybe... Well, why how does he get to say that? What does he mean by that? Does he know about my situation? What about this?

What about that?

Yes, we're being risk takers here.

When you have a podcast, you kind of have to speak to the general truths given an ideal scenario.

And we're doing that here.

That, yeah, if you have a what about in your mind, right in.

Go to fierce marriage.com slash ask and give us your what about what about this what about that what about

our marriage so last time we ended with pitfalls to avoid I think those are

worth recapping here just quickly. Okay.

And this will maybe keep some listeners a little bit longer.

We talk about initiating, okay, one of the things that I expressed in the last episode

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