Fierce friends, we are going to do you a massive favor today.

Take that initiative, way to go.

Yeah, you know what, this is one of the things I feel like a lot of couples just need

someone to just say it how it is and help them out because a lot of the

weirdness around sex is because a lot of couples they don't know how to like it's unspoken like who's supposed to initiate

how often should we be doing it what's it supposed to be like like what right that can be weird

especially if you're a young couple yes and you've gotten out of the

honeymoon stage where you're just how do we how do we live this out they kind of hit the

cruising altitude you realize like it can it gets weird and pretty soon if you're not careful you can start to drift apart.

So it is our conviction, I say our, I mean in both of us, and this is a fairly recent conviction that we've arrived at by the grace of God, is that it is right, good, and true for the husband to be the primary initiator of sex in marriage.

It's right good and true for the husband to be. initiator of sex and marriage.

To write good and true for the husband to be

the primary initiator and sex.

I didn't say only, but I'd say primary.

So we're gonna unpack that

today's episode on the other side.

So Selena when you hear that, when you hear that, when you hear that,

the husband should be the primary initiator, what goes through your mind as a wife?

What does that make you think?

You better ask nicely, no I'm kidding.

And that's all the episode.

That's actually funny because I didn't say ask.

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