Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

Being in a relationship is so much more expensive for a woman than a man. Because more often

than not, if you're the one having the child...

Yeah.

Can't work for a while.

You can't work for a while.

And that's not just the amount of time off or whatever that you lose out on that income.

It's that what that income could have compounded over the course of your lifetime.

And there are things like, oh, well, you know,

if I spend a decade of my life being the household CEO, I prefer that versus like a stay-at-home

because you really are the CEO of the house. You are. You are the chef, the chauffeur, you are the

maid, you are the person who is the project manager,

you are doing, teacher, you're doing it all. Yeah. You really are doing it all. But if you're doing

all of that unpaid labor, which by the way, the unpaid labor accounted for at a global society

is in the trillions. We just don't really factor it in because most of the time it's done by women.

And we don't value their time the same as we do men's.

And so I would say having a pre-up where you have already agreed that you will get a mom's salary

so that you can have your own money.

So even if you are a stay-at-home parent, you still have your own money because 99% of domestic violence

cases include financial abuse. Interesting. It's important you have, you have your own money

that is in your bank account. Nobody else's name is on it. Maybe you want to ensure that you will

have spousal support because you are giving up your career to perhaps move across the country to help support

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