Why Do You See So Many Narcissists Nowadays?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 13 October 2025
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
Why does it seem like you see narcissists everywhere after you have gotten out of a relationship with one? This could be the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon or the frequency illusion. Once you deal with one narcissist it opens your eyes to toxicity and it's hard to unsee it.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on, beautiful folks? |
| 0:03.8 | Lee Hemick, your favorite narcissist, favorite diagnosed narcissists here with another episode of the narcissist code, y'all. |
| 0:09.8 | Why do you see so many narcissists nowadays? |
| 0:13.1 | Why does it seem like you see narcissists everywhere? |
| 0:17.1 | Like everywhere you turn your little empathetic head, you see a damn narcissist or you think you see a narcissist. You're like, damn, is that a narcissist there? Is that a narcissistic trait there? Are you a narcissist? Is that a narcissist? Am I a narcissist? Ah! What is going on here, y'all? That's what we're hopping in today, y'all. We're just talking about why it seems like there's so many narcissists nowadays like especially after you have see after you have dealt with a |
| 0:42.3 | narcissus why does it seem like there's so many more out here like lee i dealt with one now i think |
| 0:48.6 | everybody's a narcissist i now i recognize the traits so good now. I don't know what to do. |
| 0:54.6 | I'm, |
| 0:54.9 | I feel like I'm going crazy right now. |
| 0:56.9 | Hell. |
| 0:59.8 | This happens, y'all. |
| 1:01.6 | So, Auntie Sugar said, I'm so scared. |
| 1:06.0 | Yo, this is what happens right here. |
| 1:07.7 | There's something called the Badarinoff phenomenon or the frequency illusion. |
| 1:13.6 | You might have saw the thumbnail said the frequency illusion. This happens when somebody said, |
| 1:18.5 | somebody said, I attract them. We'll talk about that later in a few seconds as well. But the frequency |
| 1:24.0 | illusion or like I said, the Bader Mienhof, like Baderindhoff phenomenon, just means that you see more of something. It seems like you see more of something because you, you, it's fresh in your mind. It's kind of, it happens like this right here. They just say, I like Toyota Prizes, right? I always wanted the Toyota Prius. |
| 2:01.2 | Like, I've never driven one before. I've never had one. But ever since I started looking them up online, I see them everywhere. I was like, damn, it's a Prius right here. There's a Prius over there. I'm on top of a Prius. I'm parked beside a Prius. Right? I'm behind their Prius. It seems like you see them everywhere. But they've always been there. Those Priuses have always been there. Now substitute the word |
| 2:07.4 | Prius or the Prius or whatever it is. Substitute that for narcissist. After you've seen a narcissist |
| 2:16.2 | up close and personal, after you've dealt with one, |
| 2:18.2 | if you had a kid with one, been married with one, been raised by one, once you wake up to what |
| 2:23.6 | narcissism actually is or pathological narcissist actually is, you're going to seemingly |
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