When a narcissist starts to HATE everything about you
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 13 October 2025
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
What happens when a narcissist starts to hate everything about you? In this episode, I explain the stage in a narcissistic relationship where they suddenly resent everything - your looks, personality, success, and even the things they used to love about you.
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| 0:01.0 | What's going on, beautiful people? |
| 0:03.0 | Today, we're talking about the stage in a relationship with their narcissists, what they start |
| 0:07.1 | to hate everything about you. |
| 0:10.2 | The way you look, the way you talk, the way you act, the way your height, weight, income, |
| 0:16.4 | every single thing about you. |
| 0:17.7 | They will absolutely hate y'all. |
| 0:19.7 | If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammack. thing about you, they will absolutely hate y'all. |
| 0:26.6 | If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a diet, I was Narcissus. And welcome to another episode of the Narcissus Code y'all. We're going to hop right into it. There |
| 0:31.6 | is a stage in every relationship, I would say almost every relationship with a narcissist, |
| 0:36.6 | where they absolutely resent every single thing about you. Like everything about you makes them hate you. |
| 0:46.7 | Not hate you. They start to hate everything about you. They look down on you. And the crazy |
| 0:52.5 | thing about it is, y'all, this stage right here, right before the discard |
| 0:56.2 | phase, is part of the devaluation phase, of course, right? |
| 1:00.2 | But the crazy thing about it is, this can seemingly happen overnight. |
| 1:05.2 | Like, you can go from being in a healthy, happy, loving relationship with this narcissistic |
| 1:10.7 | person one night, go to sleep, clap cheeks, whatever, right? Wake up the next day. And then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, they're being dismissive towards you. They're bringing up every single thing that they feel like you've ever done wrong. They look at you weird. They don't, like I said, they started looking at you weird. |
| 1:27.9 | They do a lot of different things in the situation, right? They start to mess with you. |
| 1:31.6 | They start to belittle you. They start to talk trash to you. They start to bring up things that |
| 1:37.8 | they used to love about you. Things that they have, look, things that they used to love about |
| 1:43.7 | you. |
| 1:47.2 | Now they cannot stand. |
| 1:49.5 | Right? |
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