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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Why Do We Keep Having the SAME Fight?

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever wondered, “Why do we keep having the same fight?” Today on Talk To Me, I have an on-air Couples Therapy session with Jeff and Michelle who don’t understand why, after all of their years in marriage ministry and helping other couples, they can’t seem to help themselves. They keep having the same fight over and over again (and you’ll be surprised when you find out what it’s about). I help them get to the roots of the reason why, and give them a plan to move forward. It’s a really important session to listen to if you’re struggling with the same cycle of conflict over and over again. You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's just like this whole other person that takes over the space for him.

0:38.8

And he doesn't act that impatient in anything other than driving.

0:44.7

And you probably feel less connected to him in that environment.

0:49.6

Oh, yes, 100%.

0:50.7

I've walked it through with him so much.

0:53.0

And now I've walked it through in my head and I'm like,

0:55.2

Lord, and I've prayed and I'm like, where do I help and where do I stay quiet and when do I speak up?

1:02.3

This last time, it was fear. I think before it was more anger and I know probably the anger is the

1:07.4

first and the feeling, but I felt so the fear fear came upon me, like the two-by-four

1:12.7

bounty. I'm like, please, I don't want him to get hurt or me or anyone else.

1:23.1

Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional counselor,

1:29.3

national speaker, and author. Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping

1:34.9

millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of

1:41.3

this podcast is to have on-air, authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.

1:56.2

Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing, mentally, emotionally,

2:03.2

spiritually and relationally, together. None of us are immune to the challenges and

2:09.7

struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path alone. I'm so proud and honored to be having

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