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Why Confidence Drops in Motherhood and How to Rebuild It

Motherkind

Zoe Blaskey

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8 • 863 Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2026

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

If confidence feels like something you’ve lost since becoming a mum, this episode is for you. If you’ve been moving through motherhood feeling lower in confidence than you ever expected – second-guessing yourself, feeling like you’re “just surviving”, or wondering where you went, press play on this one. In this episode, Zoe is joined by confidence coach and founder of PepTalkHer, Dior Bediako, for a conversation that completely reframes what confidence actually is, especially in early motherhood. Dior shares why confidence isn’t about feeling fearless or having it all together, but about being willing to feel doubt, fear and insecurity… and still showing up. Zoe and Dior talk about how much motherhood asks of us internally, why survival is not a failure, and how the relationship you have with yourself quietly shapes your confidence, your choices and the example you’re setting for your children. This conversation is grounding, expansive and deeply reassuring, a reminder that you are not behind, broken or failing. You are becoming. In this conversation, you’ll learn: Why confidence often dips in early motherhood – and why that’s completely normal A powerful redefinition of confidence that allows fear and self-doubt to exist How tiny, compassionate actions can rebuild self-belief when life feels overwhelming Why the way you speak to yourself matters more than doing motherhood “perfectly” If you’ve been hard on yourself lately, if your inner critic has been loud, or if you need permission to meet yourself with more kindness, this episode is for you. Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing. Feeling different since becoming a mother? Get clarity on who you’re becoming now and  download your FREE Matrescence Cheat Sheet If you liked this episode, listen to this next: Work Series: If you're feeling low in confidence, listen to this - with Lauren Currie  Connect with Zoe: Follow Zoe on Instagram  Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’ This Motherkind episode is sponsored by: Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply. For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to this episode of Motherkind. It is me, your host, Zoe Blaski, and this is the show about you, the woman behind the mother. And we are proudly sponsored by wild nutrition women's supplements. I have an incredible episode for you today.

0:23.2

If you want to feel more confident, if you want more self-belief, and who doesn't, then this

0:28.0

episode, I think it's actually going to blow your mind. My guest is Dior Bediaco, founder,

0:34.2

life coach and speaker. And she is here to remind us all that your real confidence,

0:40.8

it starts within.

0:43.3

And that actually you are capable of so much more than you think you are.

0:49.8

This episode is going to make you feel powerful.

0:52.3

And it is going to remind you of no matter where you are

0:56.9

right now how incredible you really are this episode is going to lift you up I think you're going to

1:06.4

feel really seen and I hope you're going to feel really inspired by what Dior is here to teach us.

1:13.1

I hope you love it. Don't forget to subscribe. Here it is. I'd like to take this moment to

1:21.0

thank our headline sponsor, Wild Nutrition, who are offering Motherkind listeners 50% off

1:26.3

for the first three months. When I was pregnant

1:29.9

with my first 10 years ago, I asked a few nutritionists friends, what's the best pregnancy

1:34.6

supplement? And they all said the same thing, wild nutrition. So I listened. And these

1:40.6

incredible supplements have kept me feeling great through two pregnancies, starting this

1:44.8

podcast, writing a book, a relocation, and everything in between for the last decade. So it's magical to me

1:51.0

that I now get to tell you about this incredible woman founded brand every week. So the food-grown

1:57.1

pregnancy and new mother multi is expertly formulated to support you from conception

2:01.3

right through to postpartum and beyond and food-grown magnesium is backed by a gold standard

2:07.6

scientific study that shows it has the potential to help you sleep an extra 42 minutes a night

2:13.6

and increase sleep quality by 32% yes please I know how much of a difference wild nutrition

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