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All Out in the Open

Why Come Out if I can Pass as Straight?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 December 2022

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Steven Kapp Perry joins us to discuss why people choose to come out, and shares the stories of many others.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Questions in the Closet. I'm Ben Shalatti.

0:09.8

And I'm Charlie Bird. Each episode, we discuss a question we commonly get asked as LGBTQ

0:14.4

plus Latter-day Saints.

0:15.6

We're not trying to answer this question or come to consensus, but simply share in our

0:18.6

perspectives. Today's question is, why come out if I can pass this straight?

0:23.2

Ben and I are not terribly diverse, and we share many opinions in my experiences. For example,

0:27.7

we both often wear neck ties.

0:29.8

However, there are some pretty big differences. For example, Charlie sometimes wears

0:32.5

bow ties, and I never do.

0:34.0

So tell me about your aversion to the bow ties.

0:36.0

I don't have an aversion to bow ties. I just don't have enough proximity. I just never

0:39.9

wear...

0:40.9

proximity.

0:41.9

Yeah.

0:42.9

Okay, so like going to, like whenever I'd wear a tux, which wasn't a lot for like things

0:48.6

at school.

0:49.6

Like prom.

0:50.6

I didn't ever wear a tux to prom, but I was in the...

0:52.2

Did you go to prom?

0:53.2

Yeah.

0:54.2

Who did you go to prom with?

0:55.2

I went with Angela, my junior year, and Shannon, my seat...

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