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Inspirational Living: Life Lessons for Success & Happiness

Why Choosing the Right Friends Matters

Inspirational Living: Life Lessons for Success & Happiness

The Living Hour

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Spirituality, Health & Fitness

4.0805 Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2026

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Listen to episode 1088 of the Inspirational Living podcast: Why Choosing the Right Friends Matters. Adapted from the book Friendship by Hugh Black.

Inspirational Podcast Excerpt: There is nothing so important as the choice of friendship; for it both reflects character and affects it. We are known by the company we keep. It is an in- fallible test; for our thoughts, and desires, and ambitions, and loves are revealed there. It also affects our character; for it is the atmosphere we breathe. It enters our blood and makes the circuit of our veins. Or as the old saying goes, “All love assimilates to what it loves." 

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Inspirational Living podcast.

0:14.5

Today's podcast has been edited and adapted from the book Friendship by Hugh Black, published in 1898.

0:27.6

Responsibility for our friendships is not confined to making sure that our influence over others is for good.

0:40.5

We have also a duty to ourselves.

0:44.7

As we possess the gift of influence over others, so we in turn are affected by every life

0:52.5

which touches ours. Influence is like an atmosphere exhaled by each

0:59.2

separate personality. Some people seem neutral and colorless, with no atmosphere, so to speak.

1:09.7

Some have a bad atmosphere, like the poisonous odor of noxious

1:14.9

weeds breeding malaria. If our moral sense were only keen and true, we would instinctively

1:24.5

know them as some children do and dread their company others have a

1:32.1

good atmosphere we can breathe there in safety and have a joyful sense of

1:38.7

security with some of these it is a delicate environment, sweet, suggestive, like the aroma of wild violets.

1:50.0

We have to look and sometimes to stoop to get into its range.

1:58.0

With some it is like a pine forest or a eucalyptus grove of warmer climes, which perfumes

2:05.9

a whole countryside.

2:09.2

It is well to know such people.

2:12.0

They put oxygen into the moral atmosphere, and we breathe more freely for it.

2:18.3

They give us new insight and fresh courage and pure faith, and by the impulse of their

2:26.3

example, they inspire us to a nobler life.

2:30.3

There is nothing so important as the choice of friendship, for it both reflects character

2:40.0

and affects it.

2:42.0

We are known by the company we keep.

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