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Daily Boost  - Motivation and Coaching

Why Chasing Success Actually Prevents You From Getting It

Daily Boost - Motivation and Coaching

Scott Smith

Health & Fitness, Business, Education, Self-improvement

3.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2025

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Daily Boost Podcast Show Notes Why Chasing Success Actually Prevents You From Getting It October 2, 2025 | Episode 5194 Host: Scott Smith Episode Description How's your life going? That's a big question, isn't it? Sometimes success feels just out of reach, even when you're doing everything right. Scott dives into Viktor Frankl's counterintuitive wisdom from "Man's Search for Meaning" that completely flips how we think about achievement and happiness. This isn't about giving up or settling. It's about the weird paradox successful people face - the harder you chase something, the more it slips away. Scott shares why he tells his coaching clients "I just don't care, but I care" and how that mindset shift changes everything. Featured Story A longtime listener reaches out during his darkest hour - battling cancer at 2 AM, finding Scott's voice to get him through until dawn. The story hits Scott differently this time, reminding him how real life gets for people out there. It's the kind of moment that stops you cold. Here's someone using the podcast as a lifeline during treatment, and Scott realizes he doesn't consciously try to help anyone - he just shows up and does what he does. That's when Viktor Frankl's wisdom about success being a byproduct clicks into place. The beautiful things happen when you're busy doing meaningful work, not when you're chasing the outcome. Important Points Success is like happiness - you can't pursue it directly, it only shows up as a side effect of dedication to something greater than yourself. The destination only appears when you stop looking for the map - otherwise you're just stuck on the journey. Excellence in what you're doing right now matters more than obsessing over the outcome. Memorable Quotes "Don't aim for success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you're going to miss it." "I just don't care. But I care. But I don't care." "When Scott does what Scott does, when Scott doesn't worry about it, there is a byproduct that really cool things happen to me and to you." Scott's Three-Step Approach Shift your focus from outcomes to excellence in what you're doing right now. Find something bigger than your personal ambitions that gives your work deeper purpose. Practice surrender - let go of tight control to allow natural excellence to flow through you. Connect With Me Search for The Daily Boost on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Email: [email protected] Main Website: https://motivationtomove.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/dailyboostpodcast Facebook Page: https://facebook.com/motivationtomove Facebook Group: https://dailyboostpodcast.com/facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Come on in. How's your day going? How's your week going? How's your life going?

0:17.3

That's a big aunt. That big question, isn't it? How's your life going? What? It's all big question isn't it how's your life going what it's

0:22.1

all right yeah i'm good really so victor frankl was having a pretty good life and he wrote a book called

0:33.4

man's search for meaning and we're going to just extract a little piece out of that and discuss

0:37.7

that today. Give you some perspective in life, certainly here in the past couple of weeks with

0:42.0

what's happening here in America and the world. A lot of people are questioning things.

0:47.6

So let's go back in time and find some support for that, okay? It is a daily boost from Motivation

0:52.4

atmoot.com. My name is Scott Smith. Nice to have you around today.

0:56.4

Every single day, get out of bed.

2:17.6

Stand up, take a separate feet, no matter what gets in the way. It's that simple, really, when you think about it. And then all the focus stuff and everything else comes into play. You guys are great. You're so successful. You know what you do. Sometimes it doesn't feel that way. Sometimes it doesn't. I will tell you. Can I share a story with you? I just in my brain had just a conversation come up from a listener I've had for many, many years. And he's been a member for a long time. And we've gotten together and had lunch a couple times. Every time he's in town, it's about once a year now. He stops in, hey, let's have some lunch. We stop and we do this. He may hear this today. I won't see his name, but he had cancer. And he was working through that, a very dark time. And he told me that. And I'm not thinking too much about it. I've been through the cancer thing with my wife. So I understand it. But in my job, I tend to just drive forward. But he says's got, stop a second, okay? You have no idea how dark and crazy things get sometimes for people out there. And then, and we find your podcast at 2 o'clock in the morning, and you get me through to 4 o'clock in the morning, and then I get some sleep and get up and do it again. This is amazing, really cool. So I know where you are. I know what's going on. we're all in it it so if you're in that place right now where you happen to have maybe a maybe the world's pressing on you a little bit today and it is i mean it's 50% doesn't matter i don't know what side i'm the problem with me i live right in the middle that's the problem so i'm getting hammered by everybody everything i'm just right in the middle kind of guy. It can be tough.

2:21.2

And say you're not, say you're just soaring and life is great and you're pushing really,

2:22.2

really hard to get what you want.

2:25.8

It's awesome, but you still can feel kind of lonely and it can be kind of weird out there.

2:27.3

I get it.

2:28.4

I get it.

2:29.9

So I got you back here.

2:31.8

Best I can.

2:32.7

Best I can do. Let's talk about chasing success in Victor Franco. The book was Man Search for Meaning. It's one of the books that I read it every couple of years. It's a very old book. A friend gave you to me. And amazing, the friend gave you to me that he moved away. And he got a divorce and things like that. And I never heard from him again.

2:50.9

We're talking 20 years now.

2:52.0

It's like, a really good friend.

2:52.9

He just disappeared.

2:53.5

And it disappeared from everybody. Not just me, by the way. But he came to this book. And I keep the book. It reminds me of a guy who was thinking of what I was doing at the time and gave me something that would help me. And I just, every few years I read it. Let me give a passage from this,

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