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ManTalks Podcast

Why Bother Getting Married?

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Society & Culture, Education, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.8591 Ratings

🗓️ 27 April 2023

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Talking points: marriage, relationships With marriage rates seemingly at an all-time low, and most of the old reasons for marriage largely defunct, it's a question many men are asking. It was something I wrestled with too. So...why bother with marriage? And why did I get married? [00:00] - Statistics on marriage and some of the reasons we used to get married [06:56] - Why I chose marriage This podcast is brought to you by Organifi! Plant-based nutrition that's science-backed, high quality, and something I use literally every day. Hit up the link for 20% off your next purchase here: https://www.organifi.com/mantalks Pick up my brand-new book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify Looking to build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Lastly, check some more free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.9

What's going on, team?

0:02.7

Why are marriage rates in decline?

0:05.5

There seems to be a disproportionate amount of people that are not only checking out from dating,

0:11.4

but are just checking out from marriage altogether.

0:14.4

And so there was some recent data that came out from the United States Congress,

0:18.4

the Joint Economic Commission.

0:20.6

Marriage is now between 6.9 to 6.5

0:23.8

marriages per thousand people. That is down significantly from the 1980s, the 1990s, in the early

0:29.9

2000s. And what seems to be fascinating is that as we reach this sort of all-time low within

0:36.0

marriages, there seems to be a couple of things

0:37.8

sort of driving this. So I wanted to talk about why did we get married in the first place?

0:43.0

Is marriage really even worth it? And why might you do it? Right. So I'm going to share a little bit

0:48.6

about my personal story towards the end. But one of the things that I found fascinating as I was

0:52.8

doing research for this was that trends that are being set right now are showing that people are just opting out of dating and marriage altogether, right?

1:01.5

There's men between 18 and 29, 66% of men in that age bracket are single.

1:08.7

And of that age range, 50% of men so that they're not even looking for a

1:13.3

partner or a relationship. And then you have women who projections are showing that by 2040,

1:19.6

45% of women between the age of 25 and 45 are going to be childless and single, right? So not in a marriage and without children.

1:30.8

And that's the highest that will ever been, period. Not only that, and this is a different topic,

1:36.3

and maybe I'll talk about this in a different video, of those women who don't have children,

1:41.1

right, post menopause, the women who sort of get out of the window that they

1:45.8

can have children, eight out of ten of those women say that it was non-intentional, meaning that

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