Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

I have a thought for you today that maybe you've never thought of, which can provide you

some relief and hopefully some clarity, especially if you're going through this right now.

Okay? It's why big, scary,

sometimes hairy feelings, decisions are usually just fake drama. Big, scary decisions,

what if they're just fake drama stick with me my friends because I know

when we have to make a big decision it feels like oh it's life and death oh it's do or die

oh it's like Halloween every day when there's a scary decision to make here's's a reality, right? Every time we face a big

decision, whatever that might be for you in your life right now, we think it's the decision

that defines us, right? Like, should I quit my job? Should I quit this relationship? Should I stay

in this job? Should I stay in this job? Should I stay in this relationship?

Should I move to Bali? Should I move to London? Should I move to New York? Should I move to Paris?

What if, and this can come as a relief, what if it's this kind of illusion of importance that we

create for ourselves.

Right?

What if the drama itself is addicting?

Like we feel addicted to this drama and there's momentum and energy in it.

And that just feels like we're awake, we're alive.

It sucks us in this, oh, this big decision.

Let's talk about it.

Let's crowdsource, you know, all of our friends and people in our world for, you know, for their opinions, for what they

think. We over-inflate the importance of decision-making, right? I would say that probably at

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