Hello everybody this is Matthew Hussie with Love Life. Do you know the number one most

powerful technique you can use to get any man addicted to you and only you? Take a second

to see if you can figure it out. Don't worry if you can't guess what it is. It's simple

to use but it's also easy to overlook which is why most women will never use it. I'll

tell you what this subtle trick is in just a moment. I want to talk about overcoming adversity

and why it is so important to understand how to overcome and challenge the way that you

look at the problems from the past and the things that are standing in your way in the

present. I think that people often play the violin for themselves in the problems that

they have in life. They tend to play the victim. They worry that somehow the universe is

conspiring against them and they lack the ability which I think is one of the most important

abilities in the world to reframe their experience, to look at whatever the experience they're

having as an opportunity, as something that actually could fundamentally help them instead

of hurt them. Marcus Rillia said the impediment to action advances the action. What stands

in the way becomes the way. What he meant by this was that whatever you think is the roadblock,

the obstacle that is stopping you from getting what you want right now can actually be the

exact thing that gets you what you want. That kid who grew up hungry knows how to fight for what

he wants because he knows what it's like to be hungry and have to go and get it yourself.

The person with no education values education because they never got the formal education

growing up and therefore have a completely different respect for it in their adult life. There

are people in this world who are more educated than everyone else and had the least formal

education. The person who had the toughest, you know, someone says I had an alcoholic for

a parent. Great. You know more about people than most of us do because you know how to deal

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