Why Abusers Hide Your Things (And Help You Look For Them)
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 23 May 2026
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever experienced a situation where your keys, phone, or wallet constantly vanish, only for your partner to magically find them minutes later? This is not accidental clumsiness—it is a calculated behavioral setup designed to make you question your own memory. In this video, we break down the psychology of the "savior setup," why abusive people manufacture chaos to play the hero, and how this subtle tactic is used to break down your confidence over time.NYC EVENT - www.mentalhealness.net/events
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| 0:28.0 | y'all. Why do abusive, narcissistic people hide your things and didn't have the audacity, |
| 0:36.3 | the unmitigated gall to help you look for them. |
| 0:42.1 | Why the hell is that a thing? |
| 0:43.3 | Why the hell is this even a thing? |
| 0:45.5 | Why is this a topic of discussion? |
| 0:49.0 | Yes, we're talking about today, y'all. |
| 0:50.3 | Of course, if you knew here, I'm Lee Hammack. |
| 0:52.1 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist. |
| 0:53.2 | And welcome to another episode of the Narcissist's Code. |
| 0:55.6 | Let's go. |
| 1:15.2 | Welcome. What's up, folks? What's up, beautiful, folks? Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful folks. What is going on? Why do they |
| 1:20.1 | hide your stuff, y'all? Why do this type, why does the person with this personality type, |
| 1:24.8 | an abusive personality type, a narcissistic personality type even why |
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