Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

If I'm a woman hearing these stats that essentially I live longer without a man in my life, you know, who knows the context of all these things, but I also, I'm fine without a man in some ways.

Yeah.

Why should women get in a relationship with a man if there's also benefit for women being single?

Yeah, so there's, unfortunately, I think that there's...

Besides having a family and raising children and, you know, providing for society in a different way, obviously, but...

And not being alone your whole life.

There's... There's... I think in online media, especially, but all media, there's a romanticization of the independent, feminine, strong woman.

And I think a lot of that is really positive. But I also think it's created a

culture where it's sort of women are encouraged to kind of be one strike you're out as a man. Oh,

he doesn't get along with his parents. Red flag. Like every yellow or magenta flag is a red flag.

And you're the strong, independent, beautiful woman, and you don't need a man. And whenever I ask for a dating advice, the advice I give to men is, the first thing I ask is, would you wanna have sex with you? Are you in shape? Do you have a plan? Are you kind? Do you demonstrate artisanship and interests in different things? You know, how do you demonstrate excellence? And the advice I would give to women is what I call a second coffee.

And that is, I think women are celebrated for exiting relationships, you know,

inspiring Carly Simon songs about walking out on that man and you don't need a man.

And when surveys, when men are said, when men are asked, if a woman had 80% of everything you want, would that suffice for you?

75% of men say, yeah, that'd be great.

When women presented with the same metric, 80% of everything you want, 75% say that's not enough.

They need like 95% or 100% of what they want.

Well, and again, I think that, let me go straight to the solve.

The solve is for men to level up.

Yes.

But if you look at kind of the content of what algorithms like, it's a lot of women saying,

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