Why 2 narcissists could never be together
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 24 April 2026
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
Discover why two narcissists can rarely maintain a relationship and the psychological "collision" that happens when two egos fight for the same supply. As a diagnosed narcissist, I’m breaking down why we seek out "givers" rather than people like ourselves and why the power struggle in a narc-on-narc relationship is unsustainable. Learn the truth about the "mirror effect" and why two people using the same playbook can never find common ground.
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| 0:23.6 | Boo. Why don't two narcissists just date each other? Says narcissists love being narcissistic. |
| 0:32.0 | Why don't they just find another narcissist and just narcissize each other, right? As they diagnose |
| 0:37.4 | narcissist, this is the question that I get all the time or some type of form of it. |
| 0:41.8 | If narcissists like being toxic and love toxicity, love chaos, why don't they just go find |
| 0:47.7 | somebody that's just like them? Wouldn't it make sense? |
| 0:50.6 | And honestly, it does make sense on the surface, but when you think about about it relationships with narcissists require a giver and a taker right somebody has to give and somebody |
| 1:01.0 | has to take typically the empath the codependent the survivor the victim is the giver and the |
| 1:07.5 | narcissist is going to take take take that's. That's typically how it goes, right? |
| 1:11.7 | So in a relationship, if two narcissists were to get together, |
| 1:15.1 | then both of them would be takers. |
| 1:17.1 | There would be no one there to give if you understand what I'm saying. |
| 1:21.0 | Now, I'm not saying that if two narcissists were to get together, |
| 1:24.8 | that no one would be a giver. |
| 1:26.3 | In the beginning, in the beginning, both could be givers, right? |
| 1:30.5 | Both could be trying to love bomb. |
| 1:32.6 | Both could be trying to be manipulative in the beginning, right? |
| 1:35.0 | But sooner or later, the power dynamic has to go one way or the other. |
| 1:40.3 | And who wants to keep out here fighting for power, right? |
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