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Do It Scared® with Ruth Soukup

Who Are You, Really? The Identity Work That Changes Everything

Do It Scared® with Ruth Soukup

Ruth Soukup

Business, Education, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship, Health & Fitness

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2025

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

When’s the last time you truly felt like yourself—not the version of you performing for your family, clients, or social media, but the real you underneath all the roles you play? In this soul-searching episode, Ruth peels back the layers on the identity masks so many of us wear, and dives deep into the fears and conditioning that have kept us pretending instead of living. She unpacks why we feel so exhausted (spoiler: it’s not just from being busy), and offers a powerful, step-by-step framewo...

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0:00.0

When's the last time you felt like you were totally yourself? Like really, truly yourself.

0:06.0

Not the version you put on for your kids or your spouse or your clients or even your friends on social media,

0:11.8

but really, truly, you. Because if you're like a lot of women I talk to, you can't actually remember.

0:20.8

You've got so many masks.

0:22.6

You're not even sure which one is the real you.

0:25.4

And that might be a problem.

0:27.3

So today, we're going to talk about it.

0:32.4

Welcome to the Do It Scared podcast.

0:34.7

I'm your host, Ruth Sukup, and each week on the show, we will talk about how to

0:38.7

face your fears, overcome obstacles, and most importantly, how to take action and create a life

0:45.1

you love. Hey there, and welcome back to the show.

1:06.1

For those of you who don't know me, my name is Ruth Sukup, and I'm the New York

1:09.0

Times bestselling author of seven books and the creator of several different brands, all dedicated to helping you create

1:16.9

a life and business you love. And I don't know about you, but I think that a big part of creating

1:24.0

a life you love is knowing exactly who you are and what you want.

1:28.8

But for a lot of us, that's actually easier said than done, right?

1:33.0

Because we don't always know.

1:35.0

And not only that, sometimes who we are and what we want shifts depending on who we're

1:40.4

with.

1:41.3

Have you ever noticed that?

1:43.2

So I wanted to start by telling you about something that

1:47.3

happened this summer when my family went to Europe because I feel like it sort of illustrates the

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