You're on the virtue some things are harder to say than others. I remember years ago

asking somebody

How long have you been married without the other person saying I love you and we had a woman call up

This was even before Kristen. Oh, yeah, I've heard this story the golden era. We called it

Where's your brother germs into the studio?

Poor little thing. She's on the injured reserve. She's playing this week. Thank you. Shake it. You're welcome

She said that she was married to a marine and not one time in 18 years. Did he ever say that? I love you

18 Wow now she said she was satisfied because she felt like he showed her all the time

But whatever his family background is those words just couldn't come out of his mouth

I know I know a guy like that one of my best friends actually he just he cannot say it like he literally can't say

He's never said it to his wife. He's never said it to his kids

He never said it to me. He shows it like he definitely shows it really affectionate guy goes out of his way for you

Give you to shirt off his back, but he does not say those words

What do you think the mentality of that is like they was never said when he was a kid?

I think that's what it is when he grew up he didn't have it

He just had that kind of family dynamic that no one said it to him

So it just wasn't a thing for him and I think he's always craved it

But he's kind of convinced himself that it's not existing

It's almost like you just don't say it's not a part of his vocabulary

No, see I want to delve into this because with with the kids if he knows what it felt like not to have it said to him

And Bert you said you've learned from your dad's mistakes and when you saw yourself withdrawing from your kid as soon as it was born

You're like no, no, no, we're not gonna repeat this like I'm gonna break the cycle here

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