By saying there's no good guys out there, you're absolving yourself of all responsibility for being

unable to find a good partner. The reality is, though, that there are good guys out there. You're making

excuses, which, you know, that's part of what we're here to help you do, is avoid making those

excuses to make sure you're looking in the right places.

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high-value men,

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship,

we're here to help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else,

backed by science, psychology, and our own personal experiences. Your host today are myself, Adam Lidulche, professional dating coach and founder

of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, relationship scientist, professor, and our

head relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy.

Gary, where are all the good men? Both you and I have heard this story so many

times over and over again where clients will start working with us. And the very first question

they have is, where are these guys? Where they don't exist anywhere? And this is a very typical

question, especially for those who were married for 20, 30

years, and then they're divorced and find themselves trying to get out there, trying to find love,

and they're really struggling. And they download the apps. They try to make it happen. They try

to meet these guys. But it turns out that these men are not at all

who they say they are. I mean, either they end up being five, two, when they say that they're

six one, or they're 50 pounds heavier than they show in their pictures, or maybe when they

show up on a first date, dear God, their breath smells like dragon, just, just breathing all over you.

It's just all of the worst types of guys.

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