When Your Friend Ruins Your Relationship By Sharing Your Past

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2025

⏱️ 37 minutes

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0:56.6	relationship for everybody, I think it's important to understand if you are sexually compatible.
1:02.3	By this point, if you're having sex, everyone should pretty much know that because what we often
1:06.8	see is that people get into relationships, they look back at the beginning and they knew it
1:11.1	wasn't so great and they weren't compatible, but they stayed in the relationship thinking it was
1:15.4	going to change, thinking their partner was going to come around, and it doesn't.
1:21.9	You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your
1:26.3	pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. Today we are bringing back, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the
1:27.5	conversation around sex. Today, we are bringing back the Am I the Asshole trend for a special
1:32.6	sex, dating, and relationships edition. We're diving into real scenarios submitted by listeners
1:38.0	who are wondering whether they crossed a line or handled a situation poorly. Here's what I want
1:42.4	you to remember as we dig into these stories.
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