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The Girl Defined Show

When Your Dreams of Getting Married Come Crashing Down

The Girl Defined Show

Bethany Beal and Kristen Clark

Religion & Spirituality, Christian Woman, Christian Girl, Girldefined, Womanhood, Christian Advice, Christian Teen, Society & Culture, Christian Dating, Christianity, Girl Defined

4.22.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 September 2021

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Send a text Ep. 047 - Imagine purchasing the wedding dress of your dreams only to have it collect dust in the back of your closet for a decade. That's the story Bethany is sharing on today's episode. She saw her dream wedding dress when she was in her early twenties. She thought marriage would become her reality in the next two to three years and so she decided to snag the dress. Little did she know that her journey of singleness would last much longer than she ever hoped or dreamed it would....

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0:00.0

Today on The Girl The Fine Show, I'm talking about the moment that I bought a wedding dress when I was like 21, 22 years old,

0:06.3

zero prospects on the horizon, but I had such confidence that God was going to give me the stream of merit that he was going to bring Prince Charming along,

0:14.6

and I would be swept off my feet into my fairytale ending, into my happily ever after.

0:20.8

But over a decade went by of that dress, sitting in the back of my closet, collecting dust,

0:27.2

just doing no good and Prince Charming nowhere to be found. And I just want to share how I dealt with that serious

0:34.4

disappointment, those unfulfilled longings. And you know, just relate that to you, how you can deal with your

0:39.8

disappointments. What's that wedding dress for you? That thing that's been sitting there, that dream, that desire,

0:44.5

that has just gone unfulfilled. How do we deal with that? How do we trust God? How do we thrive? All that in

0:49.8

more on The Girl The Fine Show? What's up, sisterhood? It's Bethany here, and I am actually doing something really special.

0:57.7

I am recording in the country of Ukraine. That's right. I came these past two weeks with my husband, Dave,

1:04.5

and my little baby, Davey. And we are visiting my sister, Alyssa, and her husband, Andre. And they actually, well,

1:11.7

she actually recorded an entire episode podcast episode with us all about long distance dating and relationships,

1:16.8

because she's from the US. He's from Ukraine. Like, how did they meet? How did that work? How in the

1:21.7

ever-living world do you get to know someone from across the world during a pandemic and get married?

1:27.5

So if you need some hope in that department, I'll link their podcast on long distance dating below.

1:33.0

But yeah, so I'm visiting her and I am recording and her upstairs guest bedroom. So if you hear extra

1:37.8

noise in the background, it's because there are a lot of people in the house and there are only so many

1:42.7

spaces to go. So just bear with me if you hear Davey laughing or crying or people cleaning or hanging out

1:50.4

laughing, whatever. I'm really excited about this particular episode, though, because I know that

1:55.5

for all of us, there are those things in our life that just did not go the way that we planned.

1:59.3

There are twists and turns in our story, our life story, and we're like, I don't want this, or this

2:04.3

isn't what I had planned for my life. I had hoped for this to happen. And instead, I'm not getting that,

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