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I'm a full believer that relationships will have challenges, but they shouldn't be a continuous uphill battle.

You can't be happy when you're worn out all the time.

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Life presents the toughest challenges. Every day you are faced with decisions that test your ability to express who you really want to be in this world.

We're told to keep saying affirmations and keep thinking positively, but what do you do when that stuff doesn't work?

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I am so glad you are here. I'm going to get right into the first topic.

It has to do with a relationship when you're in a relationship and you have an attraction toward another life.

That could be another person or another lifestyle you could have with that person.

And what do you do about that? Because you've established a relationship with someone and now this other life or lifestyle comes into mind and you think, wow, I could have that instead.

I should be doing that. That's what I want to do. That's what I've always wanted to do. Maybe that'll be your thought.

I remember having many of my relationships, having thoughts of being with somebody else.

I don't have those thoughts anymore. I'm quite happy and settled, but having thoughts of being with somebody else in my other relationships.

I never betrayed a person that I was with. I never cheated in my relationship, but the thoughts came to mind.

And the thoughts also came to mind of just not being in the relationship I was in because not everything was the way I wanted it.

So this happens in life. We all go through this because when we meet another person and we share our life with another person, they're going to have different values and different thoughts and different opinions.

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