When you want it to be over and they don't
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 23 September 2021
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
What happens when you've had enough of the bad behavior and want the other person to leave you alone? In a family situation, that might be easier to do since you may not live together. In a romantic relationship however, that can be a bit harder.
What if the other person doesn't want to go? What do you do then? It's time to get clear on what you want so that you convey the right message that cannot be misinterpreted.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. |
| 0:07.4 | You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. |
| 0:10.9 | That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior |
| 0:15.1 | so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 0:18.6 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:20.8 | Thank you for joining me for another episode of love and abuse. If you're a new listener, |
| 0:36.0 | welcome to the show. |
| 0:40.5 | If you've been with me a while, I'm so glad to have you back. |
| 0:44.4 | All the information on this show is meant for educational purposes only. |
| 0:47.3 | Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:50.0 | And always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:56.1 | Standing up to potentially violent people is not necessarily a safe way to honor yourself. |
| 1:02.9 | Just keep that in mind, and especially for today because I received a message that goes like this. |
| 1:14.0 | Paul, I have a question, what does one do if an emotionally abusive person won't accept that it's time to leave or move out. I've had the discussion that I need to separate for my own health with my husband, but he is fighting it and |
| 1:20.0 | fighting it. He has turned into an angel and is emotionally manipulating me now with our kids and other |
| 1:26.4 | things. |
| 1:29.3 | Do you have an episode that speaks to this? |
| 1:30.6 | Sorry if I missed it. |
| 1:37.5 | I feel like I need to rise up an army against him to get him to understand he has to step away so that I can heal. |
| 1:42.4 | My alternative is that I'll leave, but I was trying to minimize trauma to the kids. |
| 1:43.7 | Thank you. All right. Thank you for writing that. |
| 1:47.0 | I am so sorry you're dealing with that because when you state that it is over and you want the other person to leave, |
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