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Latinx Therapy

When You're the English Translator for Your Family

Latinx Therapy

Adriana Alejandre

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 601 Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2018

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Did you carry the role of translating for your parents? The academic term for a child translating for a parent is “language brokering” so you will hear us refer to that in this segment. We also mentioned that children take on a “parentified” role, meaning where a child takes the role and responsibilities of an adult.

In this segment, I talked with Lisette Sanchez, about the psychological and emotional effects of parents and children when this cultural value of translating out of necessity is used, such as the tendency of wanting to please parents but also a parent’s frustration and shame. We explored how to support young translators and also parents, along with discussing inappropriate settings where children should not be translating. Lisette shares a story of her time living in Oregon and moments when she experienced fear in speaking Spanish.  

Find many important resources below.  

You can find Lisette on Instagram @ChingonaScholar and LinkedIN. Her work for the American Psychological  Association was featured:

http://www.apamonitor-digital.org/apamonitor/201612/MobilePagedReplica.action?pm=2&folio=52#pg55

Resources

Heartfelt and Funny Tweets from Children who Translated: http://remezcla.com/lists/culture/interpreting-immigrant-parents-tweets/

An Article from Chicago: “Language should be a human right”: http://news.medill.northwestern.edu/chicago/kids-serve-as-translators-for-parents-who-speak-little-english/

Frequently Asked Questions Regarding Parents Rights for Spanish Speaking Parents/Guardians: https://www2.ed.gov/about/offices/list/ocr/docs/dcl-factsheet-lep-parents-201501.pdf

Los Angeles County Library Homework Help: http://lacountylibrary.org/children/tutor/

Each state should have an information page like this; Here is Washington’s: http://www.k12.wa.us/Equity/Interpretation.aspx

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to Latinx Therapy. The information shared in this podcast is not a substitute for seeking help from a licensed mental health professional and is not a substitute for psychological diagnosis or treatment. I'm your host, Adriana Alejandra Alejandre, licensed marriage and family therapist.

0:21.4

Hey everyone. Good morning and good afternoon.

0:24.6

I'm a little bit late in releasing this segment because I needed to sleep in today.

0:30.5

But nonetheless, it's out.

0:33.5

And this one's really special and really, really interesting because it's something that's

0:37.8

very common and I really haven't heard it be spoken about in the media or there are some

0:44.2

articles and some blogs about it, but it's still something that isn't out. So let's talk about it.

0:51.5

This is going to be the space for it. I pre-recorded this like a few weeks ago with Lizette Sanchez,

0:56.0

but you're going to hear Lizette Sanchez and I talk about the role of growing up,

0:59.7

translating for your parents.

1:01.5

We talked all about the psychological and emotional effects of both the parents and children,

1:07.1

like the shame parents feel and the tendency of wanting to please your parents as a child.

1:13.7

And we also talked about the boundaries that are needed for that.

1:17.4

Because although many of us listening are probably older,

1:21.6

it still is happening in a lot of households because a lot of children are now being taken care of by grandmas.

1:28.3

That's always been common, but I feel like there has been more of a spike.

1:31.8

So although we talked about parents, we also mean grandparents as well,

1:36.7

Thias, Thios, anyone really in the family system.

1:40.5

We both shared personal stories and we do want to hear from you.

1:43.7

If there are any examples that you want to share with us, please send me a direct message on any social media platform at Latinx Therapy, or send me an email at Latinx Therapy Podcast at gmail.com.

1:55.9

Let's talk about this.

1:57.9

And a quick note before we learn more about who Lizette is, the academic term for a child

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