When you find yourself crawling back to them over and over again
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 2 August 2022
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
Why do we return to toxic people over and over again? It's certainly not because we love to suffer. But maybe there's more going on that should be considered. Sometimes knowing the reasons can help you stop the round trips back to someone that doesn't seem to care if you're happy or not.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. |
| 0:07.4 | You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. |
| 0:10.9 | That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 0:18.6 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:31.6 | Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliani. Thanks for joining me for another episode of love and abuse. |
| 0:35.4 | All the information on the show is met for educational purposes only. |
| 0:38.9 | Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:41.8 | And always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:44.7 | Let's see what battle we're going to talk about today. |
| 0:47.5 | I had somebody write to me probably last year, I think. |
| 0:52.6 | And I apologize. |
| 0:54.3 | I get a lot of emails and I don't get to them in a timely manner. |
| 0:58.5 | So I'm going to do my best to see if I can help this person. |
| 1:02.9 | And I don't even know if they're still struggling with this. |
| 1:06.1 | I'm assuming they are since. |
| 1:07.6 | It's been, what, 30 plus years of marriage. |
| 1:12.2 | So this person has been struggling all this time in her marriage. |
| 1:17.6 | And she struggles leaving this person. |
| 1:20.5 | And she's always hoping and desiring to be loved by this single person. |
| 1:26.9 | She says, my children are grown and I've been with him since I was a teenager. |
| 1:31.6 | Now I'm almost in my 60s. |
| 1:34.7 | The roller coaster ride has taken its toll on me. |
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