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I just changed it recently and I enjoy it.

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I think I talked about this recently.

I remember reading this message that I got and talking about betrayal and cheating and things like that.

Oh, I know what it was.

I was answering a post.

So I didn't talk about this maybe on the show, but I think I answered that

and maybe in the healed being group where I help emotionally abusive people heal and change.

It's a program I run in case you are interested in that. It's over at healed being.com.

But this person wrote to me and asked me about her marriage.

And she said that she cheated in her marriage and her husband caught her.

And they split up and then she came back and he decided to give it another chance.

And she, I'm assuming, doesn't do this anymore and is, I'm assuming, apologetic.

She didn't really fill in those details for me.

But she said that ever since she has come back and I don't know how many months or years

it's been, but he always brings it up.

And he's always accusing her of cheating again.

So there's a few ways to look at this.

Some people think once a cheater, always a cheater.

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