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Seeing Other People

When to Call it Quits & How to Get Back Out There

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2023

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

I'm joined by Rudy A, TikToker and host of the Rude Advice podcast. We discuss how he went from being happily married to having an affair, why he and his ex-wife decided to finally call it quits, and what going through his divorce was like. Rudy shares his advice for healing after a breakup or divorce, rediscovering yourself / rebuilding your life, and getting back out there. We answer listener questions about dating someone who isn't on the same page about wanting to get married, why someone would be cuddly after sex if they aren't planning to see you again, what to do after hooking up with your coworker, and more.

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:08.0

Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people.

0:12.5

We have such an exciting episode today, but before we get into that, I want to give a quick

0:16.2

reminder.

0:17.8

Our two Valentine's Day parties, or should I say our Galentines Day party and our

0:22.0

fuck Valentine's Day party in partnership with Filter Off, the video speed dating app, are

0:26.6

happening so soon. We have Galentine's Day on February 7th and fuck Valentine's Day on February

0:31.6

10th. These are the first parties that I'm throwing and I plan them so strategically to

0:36.4

solve two things. One, the fact that so many

0:39.5

of you feel like you are the only single girl in the friend group or you don't have girlfriends

0:43.6

to go out and wing women each other with. So I wanted to plan that so we can all meet each other,

0:48.7

have a great time, make new single girlfriends or just make new girlfriends in general because

0:52.3

I know making friends in your

0:54.3

20s, 30s can be challenging, especially in such a big city like New York. So I wanted to create a space

1:00.0

for us all to come together and meet each other and hang out and become friends so that on Friday,

1:05.7

February 10th, we can go wing women the shit out of each other at the fuck Valentine's Day singles

1:10.4

mixer. It is going to be

1:11.8

so much fun literally every single day you guys are sliding into my dms my emails my question box

1:17.1

saying alana how do i meet people in real life or alana i'm sick of dating apps i just want to

1:21.5

meet a cute guy or a cute girl or a cute person at a bar or through a mutual friend or at a

1:26.6

party and so filterff and I teamed up

1:29.2

to create the space where you guys can just come meet and mingle, flirt, do whatever you want,

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