"My Ex-Wife Realized She's a Lesbian 14 Years into Marriage"
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 19 January 2023
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a man who tells the story of how his 14-year marriage ended because his wife realized she was a lesbian. We hear how he reacted to the news, and how he and his ex-wife created a wonderful co-parenting situation filled with gratitude, empathy, and flexibility. He opens up about falling in love, with a woman we refer to as “A,” soon after he dipped his toe back in the dating pool. He shares how this relationship was the best six months of his life, while also being filled with anxiety, guilt, and pain because she wasn’t okay with him remaining friends with his ex-wife.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered. |
| 0:14.0 | Each Thursday on Unfiltered, I'll be bringing on a different anonymous guests to open up about their real life dating experiences. |
| 0:20.6 | We'll discuss what |
| 0:21.3 | they went through or are going through, how they navigated it, what they've learned, and |
| 0:24.9 | what advice they have to anyone else going through something similar. Unfiltered is your |
| 0:29.0 | reminder that no matter what you're going through, you're not alone. If you have a topic that |
| 0:33.0 | you'd like to discuss on Unfiltered, please email your story to seeing other people podcast at |
| 0:37.3 | gmail.com |
| 0:37.9 | to be considered for an episode. Real people, real stories, real life. This is seeing other people |
| 0:43.6 | unfiltered. Good afternoon. My name is Anonymous. I'm going to refer to myself as G this afternoon. |
| 0:50.6 | I want to talk about a relationship with mine that lasted about six months. It was one of the most |
| 0:54.9 | exciting and thrilling and chaotic relationships of my life. And I'm excited to share this story with you guys. |
| 1:01.8 | Awesome. Well, thank you so much for being here. I'm really excited to hear it. So let's start with how this |
| 1:08.0 | relationship began. Take me back to the beginning. Okay, so I'm going to have to |
| 1:12.8 | provide some context and I'll do that very quickly for you. I am recently divorced. I was in a |
| 1:18.3 | 14-year relationship with my college sweetheart. We met when we were 19 and 18 years old. We got |
| 1:26.4 | married when we were young, 23 and 24, had our child in 2018, |
| 1:32.3 | bought our dream house in 2020. After 14 years, this love of my life, we're going to refer |
| 1:40.3 | to her as M. She comes out as a late bloomer lesbian. |
| 1:45.9 | And this was my best friend. |
| 1:47.7 | Still is my best friend. |
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