When tiny compromises lead to resentments

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.5 • 2K Ratings

🗓️ 3 March 2019

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Do you make small compromises with the people you love so that they will like or love you more? There are two ways to compromise: One has attached resentments, the other doesn't. I'll give you one guess which method of compromise works better for the relationships in your life.

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0:00.0	You are listening to the overwhelmed brain if you haven't heard the safe system for social anxiety is right around the corner.
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0:16.0	Life presents the toughest challenges. Every day you are faced with decisions that test your ability to express who you really want to be in this world.
0:24.9	We're told to keep saying affirmations and keep thinking positively, but what do you do when
0:30.0	that stuff doesn't work?
0:32.2	Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for you
0:36.7	so that you can create the life you want now. Hello and welcome to the overwhelmed brain. My name is Paul Kolyani. I am your host.
0:56.0	Everything I talk about in the show is my personal opinion and is meant for
0:59.4	informational and educational purposes only. Always consult a medical or psychological
1:04.0	professional before making any changes that could affect your physical or mental
1:07.9	health. I want to welcome you and I'm going to start the show a little differently
1:12.0	this time with a concept that most of you
1:17.9	probably understand at different levels.
1:21.5	And that concept is people are not an extension of you.
1:27.9	My girlfriend is not an extension of me.
1:31.8	Your son, your daughter, your sister, your brother, your partner, your friend is not an extension of you.
1:39.2	This kind of comes from the narcissistic world where narcissists will have a partner in their life and they treat
1:48.3	that partner as if they are an extension of them.
1:53.0	Now what does that mean?
1:54.0	That means when we go out, I need you to wear this dress or this suit because you represent me.
2:04.7	Now that in itself doesn't sound too toxic,
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