When Things don't go your way Enter the Self-Doubt Spiral EP515
ProjectME with Tiffany Carter – Entrepreneurship & Millionaire Mindset
Tiffany Carter
4.9 • 1.9K Ratings
🗓️ 17 May 2023
⏱️ 37 minutes
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It's never 100% about you.
When our egos get bruised, especially after wanting something so badly to happen and it doesn't, most people instantly go into self-judgment.
> The guy or girl doesn't like you back in that way.
> Almost no one bought the course you're selling.
> You didn't land the client you thought was a for-sure yes.
> Someone ghosts you or no shows an appointment
This likely triggers you into thinking "What's Wrong with Me?"
When we have a core wound from childhood that we are defective in some way, not good enough, not entirely lovable…it's so easy to take someone else words, choices, or behaviors personally.
Anytime this crap comes up for me I say these three words on repeat, "This isn't personal."
There are dozens of factors why people make the decisions they do, and very few of them are about you personally. If your side of the street is clean, and you're operating with kindness and integrity, there is nothing else you could have done. Period.
This person, this client, this opportunity wasn't meant for you right now, otherwise it would have happened differently.
A hint…. The stronger attachment you have to your desired outcome the higher the likelihood that it won't happen. Because, you are basing your well-being and self-worth at the hands of something outside of yourself, and this is rooted in fear, insecurity, and scarcity. The OPPOSITE of abundance.
You will learn how to better navigate this crushing self-doubt in this episode.
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| 0:00.0 | It's never a hundred percent about you. |
| 0:03.1 | When our egos get bruised especially after wanting something so badly to happen and it |
| 0:07.4 | doesn't, most people instantly go into self-judgment. |
| 0:10.8 | I do it too, even after my thousands and thousands of hours of therapy and coaching and personal |
| 0:16.0 | development and being highly medicated, it is my default mode is to go that I'm bad, |
| 0:22.8 | I'm faulty, something's wrong with me, I must have done something and get into that loop. |
| 0:28.3 | The guy or girl doesn't like you back in that way, almost no one bought the course you're |
| 0:32.3 | selling, no one signed up for even your free thing, you didn't land the client, you thought |
| 0:36.3 | was a for sure yes, someone goes shoe or no shows you for an appointment, this likely triggers |
| 0:42.6 | you in the thinking, what's wrong with me, what did I do wrong? |
| 0:46.9 | When we have a core wound from childhood that we are defective in some way, not good enough, |
| 0:52.1 | not entirely lovable, it's so easy to take someone else's words, choices or behaviors |
| 0:57.8 | personally, and anytime this crap comes up for me, I say these three words on repeat. |
| 1:04.1 | This isn't personal, there are dozens of factors why people make the decisions they |
| 1:08.8 | do and very few of them are about you personally. |
| 1:12.6 | If your side of the street is clean and you're operating with kindness and integrity, there's |
| 1:16.9 | nothing else you could have done, period. |
| 1:20.6 | If you're tired of hearing the same old basic mindset and motivational fluff talk, you've |
| 1:25.8 | come to the right show. |
| 1:27.5 | Welcome to Project Me with Tiffany Carter the podcast where we dish on everything from |
| 1:31.9 | managing that crazy brand of yours to manifesting abundance to my straightforward actionable |
| 1:37.8 | steps that will make you major money online. |
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