Oh hello, hello, pickles, peaches, puddings and pears.

This is Stephen Hussey and you are on the Love Life podcast, of course, where you're

not on the podcast, you are listening to it, perhaps cozy, perhaps out in the brisk spring

air, I don't know, but we're here together.

And I'm going to flick over to a message from my dear brother Matthew, which reminds me

of a quote that goes, if you really put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the

world will not raise your price.

And that is what this message is all about today.

When you invest in someone, how much, what price are you valuing that investment at?

It can be very frustrating when people feel like they take our advice, they work on themselves,

they do a lot to expand their life, to become more attractive, to become more interesting,

all that stuff. And then they think, well, what if I'm pouring all this effort in and I'm

just not seeing that on the other side?

So we're going to talk about that and how to balance out those equations because you

need both sides, you need the side where you work on yourself, you need the side where

you also look at what the return you're getting is, what's the, how much is it costing you

to keep this investment going and is it worth the return you're getting?

So, before we do that, Matthew does mention in the clip our attraction to commitment program.

If you want to get started on that, this is our program going from the early stages of

dating all the way into a committed, loving relationship.

If you want to get started on that, go to getthefreetraining.com.

Getthefreetraining.com, I will leave the link in the show notes and when Matt mentions

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