Girl I was talking to stopped responding.

Do I go straight to no contact until she reaches out?

So you got to think of dating as like tennis.

So guys who are needy and neurotic, I like to use the example of like the crazy monkey in the zoo

who's flinging his jizz and feces and everybody screaming and yelling you know grabbing the bars

in his cage and uh that guys can appear like that when they get really you know they meet a girl

they go out and a date maybe they hook up or whatever the first and they're like thinking this

is going to be my wife this is great and then they just start losing their shit and becoming weak and every time she

takes 10 minutes longer or two hours longer to respond he thinks there's something wrong and he's

paranoid and he's fearful he starts worrying about other guys and then he starts pursuing harder it creates problems and attraction because then he starts worrying about other guys and then he starts pursuing harder it creates problems

and attraction because then he starts acting unworthy what what how was the damn question again um

girl i was talking to stop responding do i go straight to no contact until she reaches out yeah so what

you got to understand is that dating's like tennis and you hit the ball over the net and you got to wait for her to hit it back because you want to be chosen as well. You want her to want you. And a girl who likes you and that you're not turning off is going to make the effort. So if you called her, if you texted her, just let her be. Assume that, hey, maybe she's busy, she'll get back to me when she can. Instead of getting angry and like, why did you wait? Why didn't you, are you playing games with me? Why did you wait to two hours to text me back? We were right in the middle of a conversation. I had to step into a meeting or my boss came in my office. I couldn't keep texting you.

Sorry.

But if you just started dating something and he's already gone, boom, full jack in the box

on you, it's going to turn you off.

So in this case, instead of sending multiple texts, hey, are you okay?

Did something happen?

Why haven't you responded to me and looking needy and insecure and like the crazy monkey in the cage at the zoo thrown as jizz and feces at everybody?

So don't be that guy.

Don't be desperate.

If you messaged her and she hasn't replied, just leave her be.

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