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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

When Ministry is REALLY Hard with Matt Brown

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2024

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

We don’t often consider the toll that full time ministry takes on pastors and leaders in the church. The role of leading people spiritually also comes at a cost — and often times that cost can be great! Today on the podcast I process this with Pastor Matt Brown, and specifically what to do when Ministry life is really hard. In our on-air counseling session, we talk about what it feels like to have your life and family under a microscope, to feel judged by bystanders, and to be rejected by people you love… as well as how to respond in healthy ways to these really hard life moments. If you or someone you know is in ministry this conversation is so important! Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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Years ago, and I'm not going to say his name because you would know his name, I sat down with

0:36.6

a very famous pastor and he drew on a piece of paper,

0:39.8

and he said, I want you to draw a line in the paper,

0:43.2

and I want you to write church outside of church.

0:45.1

And he said, I want you to write down all of your friends,

0:48.7

whether they're in church or outside of church.

0:50.7

And so I did it.

0:51.7

And then he just told me, he said, these people outside of the

0:54.9

church, they're your only friends. And Deborah, I said, I'm going to live to prove you to be wrong.

1:00.6

Wow. And he's so right. He was so right.

1:10.1

Are you ready to talk to me?

1:12.2

My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker,

1:17.4

and author.

1:18.4

Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get

1:23.2

healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

1:27.3

The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have

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