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Choiceology with Katy Milkman

When It Feels Like Everyone's Watching

Choiceology with Katy Milkman

Charles Schwab

Behavioral Economics, Society & Culture, Social Sciences, Decision Making, Charles Schwab, Business, Science, Investing, Dan Heath, Katy Milkman

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 25 August 2025

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

It can feel like the whole world is watching you—and judging you—in those embarrassing moments. But are people paying as much attention to you as you think?

Transcript

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0:00.0

In the 1998 movie The Truman Show, the lead character is Truman Burbank, played by Jim Carrey.

0:15.0

Truman lives in a meticulously constructed world, where every moment of his life is broadcast to a global audience.

0:23.6

Unbeknownst to him, his family, friends, and even his town are part of a massive reality TV set.

0:30.6

In the film, Truman begins to notice inconsistencies, and he slowly uncovers the truth, that he's the unwitting star of a 24-7 show.

0:40.3

Truman's experience is the ultimate exaggeration of a feeling we all get from time to time,

0:47.3

that other people are paying very close attention to our appearance, our choices, and our behavior. Truman's world is literally designed to allow strangers to watch his every move.

0:59.0

But in real life, most people are too preoccupied with their own lives

1:03.0

to notice our zits, bad hair days, minor mistakes, and awkward comments.

1:08.0

And if they do notice them, they usually quickly forget.

1:12.6

Truman's growing fear of and panic over being the center of attention is justified.

1:17.6

But ours usually isn't. When we're sure we're being scrutinized, science suggests it's typically not the case.

1:24.6

In this episode, we'll dive into why this disconnect occurs,

1:29.5

and you'll hear a story about a king who became terrified of a type of scrutiny

1:33.5

that never materialized.

1:49.8

I'm Dr. Katie Milkman, and this is Choiceology, an original podcast from Charles Schwab.

1:53.8

It's a show about the psychology and economics behind our decisions.

1:59.8

We bring you true and surprising stories about high-stakes choices, and then we examine how these stories connect to the latest research

2:01.7

in behavioral science. We do it all to help you make better judgments and avoid costly mistakes.

2:07.4

It is partly his dislike of the microphone that causes the speech impediment.

2:23.4

It must have been engendered when he made his first speech in Wembley Stadium.

2:27.5

It was a terrible failure and the scar has remained ever since.

2:31.6

Lionel Logue penned this diary entry in 1937,

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