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U Up?

When Is The Right Time To Ask Someone To Move In Together?

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Comedy, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2019

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

J and J are back to talk about moving in together with your boyfriend. Is the end of your lease a good enough reason to talk about getting a place together? At 25:10 the awkward sexual encounter of the week involves a ‘Hey Arnold’ DVD, bad kissing skills, and a guy who can’t get it up. When is it time to just admit that a hook-up isn’t going well? At 40:50 a listener writes in to ask if she is being too picky with guys on dating apps. At 53:20 another listener asks if she says “I love you” too often to her boyfriend. At 1:04:35 they close the show with a game of Red Flag or Deal Breaker. Leesa- Order today and get 15% off your purchase for a limited time at leesa.com/UUP and use promo code UUP. Cameo- Browse through more than 10,000 celebrities and get a personalized video shoutout on Cameo.com. Use promo code UUP for 20 percent off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to the U of Podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham and I'm Jared

0:07.5

Freed. It is such a pledge to be here. What's happening Jordana? How's

0:13.7

everything going? So I had the big move yesterday. The big move. The big move. But

0:23.3

it's been a couple of weeks since I've seen you right? Yeah it's been a while. So

0:26.1

I have more thoughts on like on moving in. So you moved in with your boyfriend. I moved

0:31.9

in with my boyfriend. I live with a man. It's been less than 24 hours. So I can't really

0:35.6

speak to the whole living well. You can speak to him. He's already annoying me though.

0:39.9

He gave me the wrong keys. I locked myself out already already. Yeah. Do you think that

0:45.0

there's ever been like a move in situation where like a week later though like this is

0:48.7

not going to happen a week later? Yeah. Like they do the first because well first of all

0:53.2

there's nothing worse than moving in any moving in general is is really annoying. And

0:58.2

I have to okay. So I'm going to walk you through the stages of this first. They're

1:01.7

finding the apartment right. Awful. Right. Annoying in itself. And you're doing this now

1:07.1

with another person. Right. It's not just you. It's not even knowing by yourself. But

1:10.8

at least you're like okay. How am I assuming full? Can we go back a little bit? Yeah.

1:14.4

Let's go. Let's start from the very beginning. There's people out there that are like

1:18.9

they're swiping on an app. You know, like they're so far away from this. Right. Is there

1:24.9

a moment where you're ever like even as you're about to like how does it you know people

1:31.5

don't know how to ask for a relationship never met never mind. How do you ask someone to

1:36.4

move in with you? How does that happen? Is it like a proposal? Is there I think I think

1:41.3

you you have to if people are think especially women I think are thinking about it for a long

1:46.1

time before they actually propose it. And this is why things end quick. Right. And I think

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