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U Up?

When Is The Right Time To Ask If Someone Is Looking For A Relationship?

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 5 June 2019

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

J and J start the show with an impromptu conversation about outside pressure to get engaged. Why is the default conversation for so many women to ask each other when the proposal is coming? At 17:20 a listener writes in wondering when it’s okay to ask someone if they’re open to being in a relationship. Is there ever really a good time to ask, or is this the wrong approach altogether? At 40:00 they answer an email from a guy who blew it on the first date and immediately got put in the friend zone. Can you ever recover once you’re put in that category? Another listener asks why she can’t seem to get guys to date her despite being “intimidatingly attractive” and successful. Has anyone ever been too hot to date, or is she just kidding herself? At 1:00:10 they close the show with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker. Thanks to our sponsors! Leesa- Order today and get 15% off your purchase for a limited time at leesa.com/UUP and use promo code UUP. Away- For $20 off a suitcase, visit awaytravel.com/UUP and use promo code UUP during checkout! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the U of podcast. This is Jared Freed and I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:10.0

It is such a pleasure to be back here with your Jordana. This podcast, it gets bigger

0:17.6

every damn week. Every week, it gets bigger every, every week. I think we get a little

0:22.8

better. Yeah, we're, yeah, yeah. I appreciate that. We know. We, we really are upping our

0:28.2

game week by week. Exactly. We're in the gym. We've been doing this a bit now. It's been a bit.

0:32.6

Yeah. I always feel like it's been like yesterday. I feel like, but now I look back and we've,

0:37.9

we've talked about a lot of dating stuff. We've gone through it. Yeah, I thought my therapist

0:42.2

had heard a lot for me, but no, I've heard it all. Yeah, you've heard it all. How's the,

0:45.8

how's living together been living together? I went to check in on this. Living together has been

0:51.3

really fun. Fun. Yeah. It's really fun. What's the most fun? I like checking in on this because I'm

0:56.4

like, to me, you know, to the audience, I would think that you're like, you know, someone that's

1:01.0

maybe single. Like, what was that? What's that like? You know, we, I'm in the dark about that.

1:05.7

New to me. What's like, what's like a young couple moving in together? Yeah. Like all we know is,

1:11.8

you know, Chandler and Monica. Exactly. Yeah. It's more, I was more nervous about it than I think

1:19.0

that I had to be. I think it's fun, especially like we're still in like the early phase of like,

1:23.5

we're like setting everything up and we're like figuring out is, you know, the couch look better

1:27.5

over here. Should we like put the painting over here? It's like, we're building this like,

1:32.2

and I want to sound like cheesy or weird, but it's like, we're building this like home together

1:35.9

that we're both kind of like involved in in decision making and then you both just, and then after

1:41.6

you like put together the bar cart, you just like lie on the bed and the bar cart. Right, you're just

1:46.6

lie on the, on the cart. What's the bar cart's done? It's all, it's all fucking over. I'm drinking whiskey.

1:52.8

But you know, it's, it is, I have to say like, it is, it's a lot of pressure being, being my age and

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