When Is It Too Soon to Post About Someone?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 19 March 2025

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Jordana's feeling a little bruised and Jared is unpacking the paradox of love’s give-and-take. First, J and J dive in, tackling a tried and true listener dilemma—should you be dating when your life feels like a total layover? Then, they break down the all-too-relatable struggle of texting purgatory on dating apps—are NYC men just looking for pen pals? Next up, Petty or Prudent features a long-lost (and very aggressively reclaimed) pair of grandma’s sneakers. And today's Red Flag or Deal Breaker debates some truly wild dating scenarios: a guy posting a second-date photo as his Facebook cover, a woman totally unphased by playing her dad’s love interest in a musical, and the ultimate modern communication nightmare—someone who only sends voice memos. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello, you up listeners. It's been a while since we've met in person and we were thinking
0:05.7	maybe it's time we set up another date. We're so excited that we're going to be hosting a very
0:10.8	special U-Up live event in New York City on April 30th at the Palladium Times Square.
0:17.8	Expect the games you love, spicy dating reveals, and even a live dating app
0:22.5	Maygover. But this time with you in the audience. Rally your friends, bring your craziest dating
0:28.5	stories, and join Jared and I live for a night of laughs that you won't want to miss.
0:33.8	Tickets are on sale now, so visit betches.co slash you up live to get yours before they're gone.
0:40.4	I'm having a hard time going from messaging on the apps to texting for what seems like way
0:44.7	too long to waiting for them to actually set up the date.
0:47.9	Ooh, they might be messaging with me.
0:50.5	Is there something I'm missing?
0:53.1	This would be a great way to get an answer.
0:55.0	Why, Jared?
0:56.0	We matched and you just kept messaging and messaging.
0:58.5	We don't get the names.
1:02.5	Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast.
1:05.0	I'm Jordana Abraham.
1:06.1	And I am Jared Fried.
1:07.7	It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana.
1:09.7	How are you?
1:10.5	What's going on? I'm good. I'm Jared Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? What's going on?
1:12.0	I'm good.
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