When Is It Right to Judge Your Spouse? | A Marriage Without The Holy Spirit | Part 3
Established Family Podcast
Derek Palizay
5.0 • 585 Ratings
🗓️ 29 April 2026
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
Should you judge your spouse?Most marriages are trying to solve outward division without ever addressing the inward condition creating it.Separation, division, and even divorce are not the root problem—they are the fruit of something deeper.There has never been a whole, healed, Spirit-governed husband and wife who produced the fruit of division.If division exists in the marriage, division first existed in the soul.In this episode, Derek breaks down the biblical difference between:— Sarkikos (fleshly, carnal)— Psuchikos (soulish, natural, unspiritual)— Pneumatikos (spiritual, governed by the Holy Spirit)
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| 0:00.0 | Today's episode of the Established Family podcast rounds out our series of a marriage without the Holy Spirit, |
| 0:05.0 | where we talk about the difference between a fleshly, soulish, and spiritual response to the things and matters inside of marriage. |
| 0:12.6 | Many of you know that what we teach at Established Family is any type of division or separation inside of a marriage is just an outward expression of an internal condition that gets a little bit |
| 0:22.3 | more dynamic when you have two individual souls inside of a marriage that make up a new condition |
| 0:27.7 | and bear new fruit. So today as we round out a marriage without the Holy Spirit, we're going to ask |
| 0:33.3 | the question, should I judge my spouse or my marriage or can I even do that? Am I qualified |
| 0:38.4 | or disqualified to do that in my fleshly, soullish, or spiritual state? These are important |
| 0:43.9 | things to consider, not to pontificate in the high and lofty, but rather make high and lofty |
| 0:48.7 | things simple so we can apply scripture inside of our marriage and bear fruit that is consistent |
| 0:53.7 | with the righteousness |
| 0:54.9 | that comes from our salvation. So thank you for coming back to the established family podcast |
| 0:58.6 | and let's hop into today's episode. What's going on to Savage Family? Welcome back to the |
| 1:03.0 | established family podcast. This is my first official video podcast back since adding a sixth child |
| 1:10.0 | to the established family, so to speak. |
| 1:13.4 | My wife and I had our fifth daughter, our sixth child. |
| 1:17.3 | She was born healthily. |
| 1:19.1 | Mommy is healthy. |
| 1:20.7 | Family is healthy. |
| 1:22.0 | Everybody's excited to have a new life inside of the home. |
| 1:25.1 | And while I might be tired and delirious, I'm full of joy and I'm full of |
| 1:32.3 | life and what the Lord is doing through our family, both in the home and as an extension of the home. |
| 1:37.8 | So welcome back to EstablishFamily.com. Welcome back to EstablishedFamily counseling clients under care. Welcome back to the Established Family newsletter. Welcome back to Established Family counseling clients under care. Welcome back to the established family |
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