Today on The Girl Define Show, we are talking all about what it means to actually live the

life fully that God has for you, for His glory without falling into the trap of comparison.

Growing up in a family with five sisters, many of you know that we have had so many opportunities

for comparison just within our own family.

I mean, Bethany and I are the two oldest of the five sisters and we are less than two years

apart.

So growing up, there was always that sense of competition, who likes who, what the other

sister is doing, how successful we each are.

And I remember a time specifically when we were late in high school when, you know, the

guys were starting to come around and we had our different crushes and this one time

this guy actually had a really big crush on me.

But because Bethany and I look very similar, we're both really tall, blonde hair, really

close in age.

A lot of people think we're twins.

This guy wrote this really heartfelt love letter to me, but then gave it to Bethany,

thinking it was me.

And later on she came to me and was like, um, this guy gave me a letter, but it's actually

for you.

She said, I didn't have the heart to tell him that I was the wrong sister.

This kind of stuff, random things like this would happen all the time.

And you know, as sisters, it's like, wait, that guy likes you, well, why doesn't he actually

like me?

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