When good enough is much less than you want to settle for
The Overwhelmed Brain
Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 26 April 2026
⏱️ 46 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Overwhelmed Brain podcast, helping you navigate the difficulties in your life and relationships. |
| 0:06.5 | These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:18.0 | Welcome to another show. Where are we? We are in 2026 for those who aren't keeping track. I just think about when I started in 2013, back in November of 2013, I just started the blog, the overwhelmed brain. And then like a few weeks later, I started the podcast. |
| 0:39.7 | And this will have nothing to do with today's episode, but I'm sharing it anyway because |
| 0:45.2 | sometimes thinking about this just reminds me of where I've come from. |
| 0:50.9 | And back then, I was married. |
| 0:53.4 | Back then, I was working in a hospital, and I was I was married. Back then I was working in a hospital and I was doing computer work and IT work and things |
| 0:59.4 | like that. |
| 1:00.7 | And six months after I started the show, my wife wanted to divorce and I quit my job. |
| 1:10.9 | So a lot of things were happening at that time. |
| 1:15.3 | And it really pushed my resilience. |
| 1:19.9 | And you might say, well, you quit your job. |
| 1:21.8 | That's your fault. |
| 1:22.6 | Yeah, for sure. |
| 1:23.7 | But I quit my job to do this. |
| 1:26.6 | I quit my job to follow this. I'm not going to say I'm |
| 1:30.2 | following my dreams or I'm following my passion. I just took a hell of a risk. I took a chance. |
| 1:37.3 | I said, this is what I want to do. I want to make this work. And probably a good four years or maybe three years of doing the show, I was living off of savings. |
| 1:54.1 | I was living with my mom because after the divorce, I moved and I moved in with her and she was very gracious, |
| 2:02.3 | and I helped her with some of the bills and other things. |
| 2:05.3 | And it was very nice because I hadn't seen my mom in years. |
| 2:08.5 | And it was nice to get to know her again from this new place I was in life. |
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