How can you tell if your girl is being sarcastic or disrespectful, even if you go along with it?

Are constant jokes at you something to tolerate?

Well, typically she's got a smirk on her face.

She's, you know, kind of like a smart ass.

She's kind of got a smile, mischievous look.

If she's being disrespectful, there'll be some anger behind it and some

contempt in her eyes she'll be looking at you and not liking you there'll be hate coming out

of those high falls instead of then they just kind of fire back with just more comedies here or just

well it's always better to have a better, more playful comeback.

But if she's really being mean and disrespectful, calling you stupid or telling you that your ideas suck or insulting you, well, you know, you get to tell her not to talk to you that way.

You don't just lay down and take it.

Control, how do you deal with a wife constantly testing your boundaries?

She is texting and spending time with a male co-worker, for example, texting late at night and one-on-one lunches in the same car?

Well, that guy is definitely trying to fuck your wife. That's for sure, and it sure looks like she's encouraging him.

So that's just not okay.

So it doesn't look like your wife respects you.

Doesn't seem like she cares about your boundaries, doesn't seem like she cares about the wedding vows.

A lady doesn't do things like that.

A good wife would never, ever do something like that.

But, you know, character is destiny.

So, unfortunately, it looks like you are married to a woman, a poor character.

How do you approach relationships when the girlfriend changes the terms of it midway through when you are already attached?

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