How Do I Rebuild Her Trust After Losing Self Control Multiple Times?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 12 May 2026
⏱️ 11 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.5 | newsletter is going to be, how do I rebuild their trust after losing self-control multiple |
| 0:11.6 | times? |
| 0:13.3 | So this particular email is from a viewer who says he's lost self-control multiple times |
| 0:19.8 | and always seems to involve alcohol. So he decided to quit |
| 0:24.8 | drinking. However, his girlfriend says it's going to be a long time before she lets her guard down |
| 0:29.9 | because this has happened multiple times. She said she's never dated anybody that's been like this |
| 0:35.2 | when they drank. And so now that he's quit drinking, he's obviously worried about reestablishing trust and her getting back to where things were. |
| 0:44.8 | And on top of that, her sister doesn't like him. |
| 0:48.0 | So he's got that working against him. |
| 0:50.2 | So it's, you know, another reason why that, I mean, this guy's been dating for four or five months. |
| 0:54.8 | This is why it's important before you meet the friends, the family, and you get involved, is that you're exclusive first, which obviously looks like this guy has done that. |
| 1:04.6 | Because if you got something like this going on and you just started dating and you're getting drunk and you're doing stupid things, |
| 1:11.7 | you're not going to get to the point where you're, |
| 1:13.7 | you become her boyfriend. |
| 1:15.7 | And so he's been able to keep it together, |
| 1:17.7 | but one of the main strength characteristics that women love and men is self-control, |
| 1:25.5 | being able to maintain your composure and not lose your shit basically |
| 1:30.1 | like this guy did, especially. I mean, I've seen it in my own life. There's just some people |
| 1:34.5 | that can't handle alcohol. They just act completely different. They black out. They drink too much. |
| 1:40.8 | They say inappropriate things. And it's just better that they don't drink. |
| 1:45.8 | And if they continue drinking, they just have a lot of problems and they create unnecessary |
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