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today. I think we can all admit that sometimes it's easier to be nice to our

co-workers than it is to be kind to our spouse. Unfortunately this is something I

really struggle with. I go home after a nice day of being gracious and you know

very polite to people and somehow the bad John comes out and Dina gets the

worst of it. I'm John Fuller along with my friends and focus co-workers, Dr.

Greg and Aaron Smiley and Greg this is unfortunately pretty common I'm

thinking, right? I'm not alone. It is especially in our marriage at least with me.

I mean it like you were saying I mean it's it's easier to think a stranger

maybe to help someone to be patient with a stranger than with their

sadly-owned spouse. I have good chances though because I'm Greg's co-worker and

his wife. Well the other day Aaron was we had a long day as a therapist in the

office to see a lot of clients and so I'd said hey can I get anything for you

and so she said I'd love a coffee and so it's one of those I wasn't being

serious I was just trying to be polite. I would bring my co-worker coffee

exactly so I went to get her coffee and Aaron always loves she just likes multiple

drinks so I got our coffee a big ice water and as I'm getting out of the car it

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