When an Underlying Issue Becomes a Big Problem
Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast
Focus on the Family
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🗓️ 8 January 2026
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
How are you dealing with the baggage you've brought into your marriage? We all bring some, but the key is taking appropriate action to address it. David and Krista Dunham talk to Jim Daly about how they discovered Krista had an eating disorder while they were dating. Also, Erin Smalley discusses what you can do if your spouse has a serious problem, but is not seeking help.
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| 0:00.0 | Chat GPT and AI can offer you ideas and attempt to give you answers, but it can't listen with compassion, |
| 0:07.1 | pray with you, or guide you with wisdom shaped by faith. When life feels overwhelming, real human connection matters. |
| 0:14.8 | At Focus on the Family, we believe in the power of professional help and biblical wisdom. |
| 0:20.3 | That's why we offer a free, confidential consultation with a caring Christian counselor |
| 0:25.2 | to walk with you through life struggles. |
| 0:27.9 | Whether you're navigating challenges in marriage, parenting, anxiety, grief, or something |
| 0:33.2 | else, our counselors are here to help. |
| 0:36.0 | If you're hurting, don't wait. Hope is real and healing |
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| 0:47.8 | 1-800-232-6459 or visit focusonthefamily.com slash get help. That's focus on the family.com |
| 0:58.3 | slash get help. Well, we all bring some baggage into marriage. The key question you've got to |
| 1:10.3 | answer, though, is am I just looking at it or am I |
| 1:13.0 | dealing with it? I'm John Fuller, and I'm joined by Greg and Aaron Smalley. They lead our |
| 1:18.5 | marriage department here at Focus on the Family. We're going to kick off with a clip from Focus on |
| 1:23.5 | the Family with Jim Daly, in which Jim spoke with David and Krista Dunham. |
| 1:28.4 | And Krista is very open about some struggles she had, particularly with an eating disorder. |
| 1:35.9 | David, at this point, Krista, I don't know if you guys were engaged or just dating, |
| 1:41.9 | but she was at a college pretty far away from you and you were going |
| 1:45.8 | to school at a different university, it sounds like. How did that long distance confession come to you? |
| 1:53.6 | This was the first time, Krista, you had told anybody, right, that you had a problem. |
| 1:58.5 | Yeah. Yeah. And you're at these different schools eight hours away |
| 2:02.6 | i think and how did you react i don't know how i would have reacted to something like that you know |
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