for introverted feeling or authenticity. It is looking for at least an acknowledgement. I think

sometimes we conflate validating with ratifying, approving of something. Validating it makes it

sound like we're saying, and that's as it should be. Introverted feeling or authenticity

really understands. Validating somebody's feeling is basically just saying, I understand why that

would exist. It's not saying that it's the right feeling, but really all it's doing is going, I understand that you're a complex person and

whatever feelings come up are the feelings that came up. So I want to recognize and acknowledge that

and validate that you're having this experience.

Hey, welcome back to the Personality Hacker podcast.

My name is Joel Mark Witt.

And I'm Antonio Dodge.

So, Antonio, when you get an apology from somebody or somebody has maybe wronged you from your perspective, what do you expect if they want to make it right to you?

Like, if they want to make it up to you, if they want to, is it just an apology?

Do you need them to signal something else? else like how do you expect them to present that they have

changed that they'll do it better or different or yeah by the way is I'm taking notes

yeah yeah it's right whatever I say write this down

ooh I don't know.

I don't.

I think I'm actually pretty forgiving.

Yeah.

Maybe, I mean, no.

Maybe too forgiving.

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